How to be confident, page 1 of 7By Dr. Stan Helmsletter
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How can you be confident, and how can you become confident? If you want to become confident, you've come to the right place. I'll show you how you can become confident. And it's easier than you think.
FearIt starts with fear. You feel that fears rule your life. You feel that your life is being wasted, because just ONE fear-thought can paralyze you for many days, weeks, or months.
Fear of authority figuresHow can you be confident, and how can you become confident? For starters, if you fear authority figures, then stop watching the brutalities committed by authority figures like cops. If you fear authority figures, then stop watching movies where authority figures like cops always win; where your peers — the people you identify with — always lose.
Fear of criticismHow can you be confident, and how can you become confident? If you have thin skin, or if you fear criticism, then stop living or working with negative people who criticize you (incessantly).
Fear of incompetenceHow can you be confident, and how can you become confident? If you fear you're incompetent in school, then your school might be too competitive, and you might need to attend a different school. If you fear that you're incompetent at work, then your workplace might be too competitive, and you might need to do a different line of work.
Fear of social eventsHow can you be confident, and how can you become confident? If you fear social events, then perhaps you do not enjoy attending social events. Perhaps earlier there was a dominant person in your life who used to drag you to social events where, instead of learning social skills, you received nothing but criticism or humiliation.
Fear of the opposite sexHow can you be confident, and how can you become confident? If you're a man, and if you fear women, then there might have been a dominant female figure in your life who hurt you repeatedly. Or, if you're a woman, and if you fear men, then there might have been a dominant male figure in your life who hurt you repeatedly.
What seems to be the problem?How can you be confident, and how can you become confident? Why aren't you confident, and what is the price you pay for NOT being confident? When you're not confident, the price you pay is your priceless missed opportunities. How do you miss your opportunities? You miss your opportunities when you freeze and don't take any action. Why don't you take any action? Because your fears are stronger. You don't take any action, because you're not confident. ...More >>
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