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How to find your soul mate (soulmate), page 1 of 3

By Dr. Stan Helmsletter

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Are you single or married?
Do you have a soul mate (soulmate)?
How can you find your soul mate (soulmate)?

Are you hopeful?

Yes, I am. I keep hoping that I will meet my soul mate (soulmate). After all, no one knows what's around the corner. However, how many corners do I have to turn? Because it seems that I've turned them all.

Are you lonely as a single man (woman)?

Contrary to what most people think, no I'm not lonely at all.

Is marriage any better?

No, not really. Marriage (long-term relationship) is overrated, unless you enjoy:
  • Putting on a show to make it look like you're perfect; when in reality you're not perfect; and no one is perfect;
  • Spending all of your money, time and energy on one person (soul mate);
  • Risking everything you've got on one person (soul mate); and
  • Paying the ultimate price of that show, by becoming poor, tired and old.
Marriage is also like a cage. Those who are without it are desperate to get in, and those who are with it are desperate to get out. Why? Because:
  • The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence;
  • There is social pressure to get in (and out); and
  • You're probably negative about your current situation.

What are your probabilities?

As to probabilities,
  • If marred life is your fate, then chances are you will marry.
  • If single life is your fate, then chances are you will remain single.
  • If you're married, then chances are you'll stay married.
  • If you're single, then chances are you'll stay single.
  • If you're an introvert, and if you're left alone, then chances are you'll remain alone.

How can you find your soul mate (soulmate)?

  1. Dress well, but not too well. You want to beat your competition as well as get public acceptance.
  2. Advertise your needs, meet people, and be open to opportunities.
  3. Stop being so picky!
  4. Follow your instincts, and put a low priority on the physical looks of your potential soulmates.
  5. Talk to strangers because it builds confidence, communication skills, and makes you feel connected.
  6. After you've found some potential soulmates, do ask them out! Because you will lose them, if you never ask them out, or if you stop dating them.
  7. Do stick around! Because you will lose them, if you make a long-distance move to another city, state, or country. ...More >>
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