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My second best advice

How do you deal with your bad neighbors?
My second best advice is, "DON'T fight fire with fire!"

In other words, if you want to deal with your bad neighbors, (i) ignore them as much as possible, and (ii) at the same time kill them with kindness!

Why? Because, most likely, by yelling at you and banging on your ceiling, (i) they try to get a reaction from you, and (ii) at the same time they try to make you look BAD!

So, when the two of you are about to fight, when your bad neighbors are yelling at you for you being "too noisy", simply SMILE, and at the same time pretend you didn't hear them (too much noise).

And then, one or two days later, start giving them TREATS! Why? Because then your bad neighbors will be stunned into silence. And, at the same time, you will be a bigger person.

Before I moved, and after *I* started giving my bad neighbors TREATS, it was like as if a miracle happened. Because, for many weeks, there was no conflict between us! And I didn't have to deal with them at all!  

Your bad neighbors: How do you teach them a lesson?

How do you deal with your bad neighbors?
What do you do, if you can't move, don't want to move move, and can't kill them with kindness?
If you don't want to move, if you can't deal with them, if they keep banging on your ceiling, if they're in denial mode, if they're petty, quarrelsome, miserable bitches with an attitude, then you should teach them a lesson.
But, how do you teach them a lesson?   ...More >>

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